Marci Traylor

Master Coach · Relationships & Midlife

You don’t have to change who you are –

just what you’re carrying.

For women in midlife navigating relationships, family patterns,
& seasons of change—and ready to come back to themselves.

Welcome, I'm so glad you're here.

If you’ve found your way here, chances are something in your life or relationships has been feeling heavier than it should.

The guilt. The replaying at 2am. The weight of everyone else’s chaos.

Sound familiar?

Maybe it’s distance in a marriage. A hard family pattern. Children who need you differently. Aging parents. Or a season of change that has you wondering what you want now.

You may love your people. You may even love the life you’ve built. And still feel like you’ve lost touch with parts of yourself along the way.

My work helps women in midlife stop carrying what isn’t theirs, feel better in the relationships that matter, and come back to their own voice, choices, and sense of self.

Because you don’t have to lose yourself inside the relationships that matter. ☀️

a simple place to begin

The Button Pusher Reset is a free 7-day email series designed to help you stop letting other people’s chaos become yours.

Each morning, you’ll receive one small idea and one simple reflection — readable in the time it takes to finish your coffee.

No homework. No heavy lifting.

Just a small daily shift back to your own peace.

How to work with me

Private Coaching — Reclaiming YOU

For high-capacity women navigating hard relationships, life transitions, or decisions that are asking for more clarity and direction.

Maybe your marriage feels heavy. Maybe an adult-child relationship is breaking your heart. Maybe a family member, business partner, or loved one keeps pulling you into old patterns.

Reclaiming YOU is a deeper, highly personalized kind of support to help you find your way through the relationship, pattern, or season you’re navigating — without losing yourself in the middle of it.

Your Morning Mindshift

Five minutes. One mindset shift. A better start to your day.

A simple morning practice to help you come back to yourself before the day pulls you in every direction.

The Story Behind the Work

Life has a way of leading us down paths we don’t understand at the time, but sometimes, they reveal the most beautiful destinations.

I’m a GenX girl from the Midwest who believed post-college success in the ’90s meant making a big name in a big company, raking in big bucks.

But in 1997, I traveled to Bali, Indonesia, and it woke something in me I couldn’t ignore. Surrounded by beauty and a culture steeped in spirit, I realized with startling clarity that the corporate path I was on wasn’t meant for me. Still, I didn’t know what direction to turn instead.

When I returned home, life handed me the answer in a way I never expected. My dad—6’1”, 225 pounds, full of life, laughter, and strength—was suddenly facing the only thing I’d ever seen truly scare him: cancer.

At just 57, he was given a devastating diagnosis and a prognosis of only months to live. I left my job and traveled with my parents across the country in search of treatments—conventional and alternative—that might give him a chance.

What I witnessed during that time forever changed me. Faced with the limits of life, my dad shifted. He focused on what really mattered, opened his mind to new possibilities, and let go of what he called “the BS”—the big stress that wasn’t worth carrying anymore.

Against all odds, his cancer went into remission. Nearly two years later, though, he died—not from cancer, but from radiation damage caused by an early treatment the doctors never expected him to live long enough to outlast.

Losing him broke my heart, but it also opened my eyes. Those years with my dad showed me something I couldn’t unsee: we are so much more than we think we are.

Each of us carries an internal resource, a new level, that, once tapped, can transform our health, our relationships, and the way we live.

That realization became the foundation for everything I now do.

Over the next two decades, I studied, trained, and coached — always looking for the patterns underneath people’s struggles.

Why do some people transform under pressure while others collapse? Why do certain relationships drain us while others restore us? Why do we keep taking things personally even when we know better?

What emerged from those years of work is a framework I call the Five Levels of Living™ — a simple, practical map for understanding why we respond to life the way we do, and how to access something deeper.

My dad found his way to that deeper place when life demanded it of him. You don’t have to wait for a crisis to get there.

That’s what I’m here for.

P.S. Just know—loving dogs isn’t required, but it definitely earns you extra credit with my Chief Happiness Officer.

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